|The mission of LoveTypes® International is to help foster beautiful, loving,
healing, growth-producing, harmonious, and compatible relationships between
people of all genders, races, ethnicities, and cultures throughout the world.
These strong and life-enhancing relationships will, in turn, help wipe out the
scourges of loneliness, frustration, worthlessness, isolation, boredom, and
anxiety that plague many of the people of the world.
Recognizing the pain and problems that many people face in forming
romantic and platonic relationships, LoveTypes® International provides
techniques, resources, guidance, networks, coaching, counseling, as well as
individual and group work to help people connect with others in a positive, lifeenhancing
manner that transforms their lives.
LoveTypes International draws from Dr. Alexander Avila’s diverse
background and training in Myers-Briggs® typology (including his groundbreaking
book: LoveTypes: Discover Your Romantic Style and Find Your Soul Mate), psychodrama, Eastern psychology, and Western
psychological principles to provide the most powerful psychological and spiritual
tools to help individuals develop and maintain the most rewarding and fulfilling
LoveTypes International works at the grassroots level by sponsoring FREE
LoveTypes Social Clubs in communities throughout the world. These member-run
groups bring like-minded people together and teaches them how to:
*Overcome their fears, anxieties, and frustrations regarding relationships
as they learn how to connect with compatible, meaningful people---
romantically and platonically--in a natural and relaxed way.
*Participate in fun and enlightening social and educational events that will
enrich their lives.
*Get involved in charitable and helping activities that will help the world
become a better place.
LoveTypes International and LoveTypes Social Clubs will accomplish four
powerful, revolutionary objectives in the 21st Century:
1. A revolution in love and romance: As they were in the legendary Garden
of Eden, men and women will again feel trusting, relaxed, and loving in
each other’s presence. The guessing, the games, and the anxiety will be
dissolved as men and women recognize each other’s true personality
styles and make intelligent decisions about the kind of people they want to
In LoveTypes International, the focus will move far away from the desperate
dating measures of heartbroken men and women toward a new type of
harmonious relationships where like-minded men and women pull together for a
common cause: To enlighten and heal the world, one relationship at a time. As
their focus is redirected toward this higher purpose, the underlying friendships
and romances between men and women will evolve naturally, without significant
stress, strain, and thought. Love will shine outward from the noble purposes they
2. A revolution in friendships: Not only will romantic relationships be
transformed, but people of both sexes will be able to create wonderfully fulfilling
friendships with each other. The same principles of romantic connection will
apply in the area of friendships: Members will be drawn to each other based on
compatibility and mutual respect toward each other’s LoveTypes (or romantic
styles), and they will work together for a common, higher cause that strengthens
and deepens the friendships they form. Men (as well as women) will finally be
able to bond with their own sex in a healing manner, free of one-upsmanship,
competition, and wariness. And men and women will be able to bond with each
other in true friendship, devoid of manipulation and sexual mind games.
3. A revolution in personal esteem: As people understand and embrace
their own LoveType or romantic style (no matter how rare their LoveType is), their
self-esteem will increase accordingly, and they will see themselves as worthwhile
and productive human beings. Because LoveTypes International recognizes the
beauty, power, and contribution of each the 16 LoveTypes, everyone is treated as
an equal, and everyone’s unique talents and powers are fully encouraged and
expressed. The result is a magical combination of 16 unique human “colors” to
create a gorgeous rainbow of human expression and connection.
4. A revolution in positive family cycles: Finally, as healthier long-term
relationships and marriages are created through LoveTypes International, a
positive family cycle will be created. Children will see the example of their happy,
LoveType compatible parents. They will understand the incredible benefits of
marrying a compatible LoveType and working with their mate’s personality
preferences to create a happy and harmonious family life.
When these children grow up, they will follow their parents’ footsteps and
choose compatible partners with whom they can create successful and loving
relationships. This will create a perpetuating societal effect that will result in
longer, happier marriages and well-adjusted children. Moreover, with the fostering
of healthier relationships and people with greater self-esteem, there will be far
fewer divorces as well as much less juvenile delinquency, crime, poverty, mental
and physical abuse, and all the other human maladies that can be attributed to
the breakdown of the family.
Now, with LoveTypes International’s transformative approach to human
relationships, our world society can move toward the oncoming centuries with a
higher degree of human and spiritual evolution. With LoveTypes International as
the linchpin, men and women will be able to develop a profound sense of human
connectedness, and experience true meaning and passion during their time on